haha this is just a response to your post emily c:
I often wonder about that too... the whole staying with someone forever thing. I know there are people out there who likes the rush of falling in love over and over again with different people. But for me, I honestly just want one person. I know I'm young haha. I shouldn't expect my first one to be the one and that there would possibly be many others... but is it silly of me to only want one? To me, I just don't like the thought of falling in love over and over. It just seems so tiring. I think that in a relationship, there will be those boring periods where both people are bored with each other. But I think that's the beauty of relationships. If you both really loved each other, you both would keep trying to make that spark come alive again. I guess being bored with each other is a testament to see how much you really love each other. If you aren't willing to make it work, then you really didn't love that person as much as you say you did.
Those cavecanum secrets really scare me too haha. It seems like there are so many cheaters out there or people who want to end their relationships because they're bored with each other. I read on yahoo just the other day where this reporter interviewed a couple who has been together their whole lives almost haha. I think it was 80+ years. They're both centarians now. The reporter asked them what their secret to staying together for so long is... I don't really remember what they said though LOL. Even though stories like these are really sweet, the cavecanum secrets knock me out of this "together forever" fantasy I have lol.
I'm really glad you see john as the one emily. I don't think it's silly to think that he's the one even though you're so young haha. I can sincerely feel the love you both have. You both are really comfortable with each other and I envy that. When you guys have kids, I'll be sure to teach them many things. ohohohohohohohohohhohohohohho. No but seriously, I'm really happy for you two. Even though there were hardships both of you had to endure, I'm glad both of you pulled through and still love each other unconditionally.
Tendy, wise words u have sir. Really wise words <3 It really does seem tiring falling in love with new people over and over again, it'd be nicer just having that one person.
ReplyDeleteLOL YAH SOMETIMES I HAVE HOPE BECAUSE OF CUTE/NICE THINGS I READ, but then cavecanum smacks me right back to being scared |:
& Thank you Tendy, we'll teach our children well. They're all going to be fat and have unibrows just like him. SO SEXY UHUHUHUHUHUHU.